Adulting and house maintenance is something I also struggle with. I read a book that really helped me feel less ashamed about not being able to keep a perfect home, it's titled How to Keep a Home While Drowning. My girls help out so that is great. I still dream of one day being able to just do all the things and it not feeling like such a struggle. For now I do the best I can and try to find peace even in a messy house. Thanks for sharing!
I think something to remember is that chores, etc. also used to be more communal and community based. Now we’re expected to do the lone wolf thing with no help while working and raising kids, etc. You’re doing great! Enjoy your babies and being present with them 💜🫂
Adulting and house maintenance is something I also struggle with. I read a book that really helped me feel less ashamed about not being able to keep a perfect home, it's titled How to Keep a Home While Drowning. My girls help out so that is great. I still dream of one day being able to just do all the things and it not feeling like such a struggle. For now I do the best I can and try to find peace even in a messy house. Thanks for sharing!
I think something to remember is that chores, etc. also used to be more communal and community based. Now we’re expected to do the lone wolf thing with no help while working and raising kids, etc. You’re doing great! Enjoy your babies and being present with them 💜🫂